Yasir Hussain is atrocious, but you’re not any better

Published: May 4, 2017
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What Yasir Hussain said was completely unacceptable and reprehensible.

Most Pakistanis have already moved on from outrage to the inevitable “forgive him and move on” phase, but the despicable nature of Yasir Hussain’s comment will never be lost on the victims of child molestation in Pakistan.

For those who have not been on the internet for a week, at the Hum TV Awards, Hussain looked at Udaari star Ahsan Khan and said,

Itna khoobsurat child molester, kaash mein bacha hota.

(Such a beautiful child molestor, if only I were a child.)

He was implying that children actually want to get molested by beautiful people. Any kid who will get molested by Khan should consider himself lucky in Hussain’s perverse mind.

Our showbiz fraternity laughed. Ahmed Ali Butt showed his class by saying something along the lines of,

Mai toh toffees bhi kha leta.”

(I would also eat the toffees.)

This is the same man who last year made fun of dwarfism.

Are we really surprised? Do we even expect better?

We all grow up on ethnic jokes and stage shows are full of misogynism, but if we are to overhear such jokes in our schools, at our chai dhabas and private WhatsApp groups, we would be repulsed.

Or you would think so. Instead, we laugh it off.

Even right now, a lot of people think the problem is not with the comment but the fact that it was said at an awards show.

“Aisee baatain TV par nahin karni chaiye.”

(We shouldn’t speak like this on TV.)

We shouldn’t speak like this at all.

I have been incensed at Hussain’s ever since I heard about it, leading to people saying,

“But Shehzad it is only a joke.”

Yes, which is exactly why it matters even more. What we laugh at defines us as a community.

Comedy creates culture and culture creates comedy. If we live in a culture where child molesters should be idolised for being beautiful, then we have a serious problem.

It is easy to demonise a person for saying things like “she wanted it”, “if she did not want to get raped, why did she wear that? Why did she venture out of the house at 10pm? Why did she have a boyfriend” but it is much harder to understand how our daily statements, especially jokes, actively contribute to rape culture.

Next time Pakistan beats India in a cricket match, people will change their status to something like, “Pakistan raped India”.

Jokes about rape and child molestation are not cool. Period. Not only do they normalise reprehensible behaviour, they also trigger terrible memories for survivors.

As a society, we’ve learnt to accept terrible behaviour as part of our daily life. Let’s please draw the line somewhere.

This is not about free speech – granted it might be hard to write a law against rape jokes but that does not mean that you are not a reprehensible human being for making rape jokes. Every person making those jokes and laughing at them is collectively responsible for our apathy towards rape and sexual assault in Pakistan.

There is a statistic going around which  states that 11 kids are molested every day in Pakistan. I find that figure to be absurd. My own conversations and sampling with groups shows the figure is at least a few hundred times more than 11.

Most women and a majority of children face some sort of assault or unwanted sexual advance, whether it be from a family member, friend, neighbour or domestic servant. This is the reality of the world we live in.

Rather than educating our children about the dangers they face, we make jokes about Khan being beautiful.

What Hussain said was completely unacceptable and reprehensible but that is only the tip of the iceberg.

The internet was full of memes about child molestation when Udaari was on, which were posted and shared by popular comedians online.

Photo: Twitter

Photo: Twitter

You go to amateur open mics and there are people doing rape jokes.

Is it only a problem for everyone because it was said during a public awards show? How many of you have called out a friend for saying such filth in a private setting?

Jokes really have the potential for social change. And our country needs a better class of comedians.

This is not about vulgarity or indecent language. Comedy should offend people but it should offend the right people. I always try to punch up rather than punch down with my jokes. My social satire targets the status quo and the power structures.

It pains me as a comedian to put on shows like Khabarnaak and Hasb-e-Haal and see people making fun of people’s disabilities, their skin colour, their family ties, their ethnicity, and the favourite material for most jughaats, their womanhood.

Comments like Hussain’s have become a mainstay of comedy in Pakistan. I was always told,

“You make fun of what people do, not who they are.”

Somehow all comedy in Pakistan is about who people are.

People watch shows like Comedy Nights with Kapil and go to their schools and universities and make fun of their friends for being black or fat mimicking Kapil Sharma. The “but it is only a joke” logic does not apply when you see the damage caused to individuals every single day due to the irresponsible comments of these comedians.

Comedy can be cathartic and comedy should target social taboos. To explain it further, each joke has a target – to be a little technical here – and joke writers should ensure that their joke targets the oppressor not the oppressed. The butt of the joke should always be the reprehensible person, not the child getting molested, as it was in Hussain’s case.

If we are not going to get professional comedians to write our jokes, then we will end up with people who think comedy is simply repeating stuff they say to their friends on screen.

Hussain’s terrible apology shows how little he knows his comment will matter. He has brushed it aside as a slip of the tongue, an unscripted moment. It is merely an apology intended to save Hum TV from criticism more than anything else.

Yasir Hussain's message regarding his unintentional comments about child abuse in the award show.

Posted by HUM Awards on Sunday, April 30, 2017

Hussain is terrible but he’s most of us.

Please, the next time you laugh at a joke normalising rape culture, please consider what you’re doing for a moment.

shehzad.ghias

Shehzad Ghias

A graduate from the LUMS Law School and is running his own theatre production company, Cogito Productions.He works as a theatre teacher at various schools. He tweets @Shehzad89 (twitter.com/Shehzad89)

The views expressed by the writer and the reader comments do not necessarily reflect the views and policies of The Express Tribune.

  • Banda

    I honestly dont understand the fuss…Yasir Hussain was just praising Ahsan Khan’s looks and he said ‘wish I was a child’. He made the joke on himself being molested, not on children. probably not the right way of saying it..but its the way your mind interprets…Recommend

  • Usman Khan

    Agreed… 100%. This has become a norm to make fun of people and there personalities on national TVs. Its not just Hasb-e-Hall or other comedy shows, its the way we deliver the breaking news, you don’t need to shout on TV to deliver a breaking story especially if its a tragedy, you don’t need to humiliate a person in inaam ghar just to give him some money or a prize, I can keep going on and on but again who am I trying to put some sense into? Rating Rating and Rating, these TV channels will everything for the sake of ratings.Recommend

  • Nauman

    Stop with these click bait headings…thts just a cheap move Recommend

  • Shah

    It is ironic coming from a stand-up ‘comedian’ like you Shehzad. If you’re looking for the guilty, you need only look into a mirrorRecommend

  • Ali

    please relax, thanks.Recommend

  • https://ii-umich.academia.edu/AllyAdnan Ally Adnan

    Yasir Hussain chose to make jokes about child abuse, rape and molestation at the HUM TV Awards. His behavior was reprehensible, repulsive, revolting, offensive, distasteful, repugnant and shameful. He is an excitable young kid with no talent and more success than he can handle. Moreover, his behavior suggests that he has no class. It is, therefore, no surprise that he behaved in a criminally careless and callous manner. This is what happens when people without class, decency, dignity, a good upbringing, and education are given the mic. They do not have any talent and, in their desperate bids to be funny, they cross all limits and end up being offensive. His subsequent explanation and apology was equally offensive. Lacking sincerity, seriousness and integrity, it was a continuation of his atrocious comments.Recommend

  • Aimnov

    I actually find it really funny. Nothing bad about it!Recommend

  • Habiba Hussain

    It is not merely about how your mind interprets. Interpretations need some valid grounds to be constructed upon. Its about what words mean and what they imply. Unwise words can belie innocent intentions, and reveal entrenched and problematic ideas, which is what Gias is trying to point out. Peoples’ refusal to take him seriously depressingly reveals the flaw in their thinking.Recommend

  • farhan

    heading towards the same direction as america.. political correctness and over sensitive humansRecommend

  • farhan

    political correctness and over sensitive humans are products of liberalism..people make these kind of jokes so commonly when not in media but if tehy say it on media it a hell of an issue..He also asked for forgiveness. But people are over sensitive these daysRecommend

  • nimra

    We all often make fun of such issues because we are insensitive towards them and we get super sensitized when the same thing happens to us.
    Mostly we begin to stand against something when it happens to us or somebody really close to us but if that human being is unknown , we become heartbreakingly inhumane….double standards.. self obsession. We cant feel other’s pain…Recommend

  • AJ

    I agree with the idea. It isn’t just about one slip of tongue comment. Our talk shows are about making fun of people and we are the one who watch it and laught on it.
    Recommend

  • UJ

    Americans elected Trump, so I am not sure if they are over-sensitive to political incorrectness.Recommend

  • farhan

    still way more liberals there who are like this as compared to other parts of the world..trump did not win by a huge marginRecommend

  • Agha

    You have to be at the same level as america to be “whining” about political correctness. Seems like you are too sensitive as well. And this is CHILDREN being talked about. Yes, RAPED CHILDREN most of whom don’t even get justice because it is hushed up as a shame. And you are whining about PC. Great. When you reach the level of western countries (where PC was ACTUALLY taken too far) then you have the right to whine about PC.Recommend

  • farhan

    make some logical points so i can answer youRecommend