Mourning is not exclusive to our Shia brothers – I am a Sunni and I mourn in Muharram
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I am Sunni. My family is Sunni. We love Abu Bakr (ra), Usman (ra), Umar (ra) and Ali (ra). We believe in their rightly guided caliphates. The Commanders of the Faithful. We believe in Aisha (ra) as the wife of the Prophet (pbuh) and a role model. A Mother of the Faithful. This is our belief. We are not Shia.
Being Muslim, we love the Prophet (pbuh) and love all that he loves. For what is beloved to the Prophet (pbuh) is beloved to God. This includes the love for the people he loved. The Prophet (pbuh) loved his wives, his friends, his companions, and his family. We wish peace upon the Prophet (pbuh) and his family in every salaat (prayer), just like every other Muslim in the world does, without regard to madhab (denomination).
Of the Prophet’s family (pbuh), there exist two names shadowed in an eternal passion, kept alive by billions of lovers for over a millennium. The beloved sons of Fatima Zahra (ra), the daughter of Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) and her husband Ali ibn Abi Talib (ra), Hasan (ra) and Hussain (ra). The Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) confided with humanity that indeed his favourite two children in all of creation would be the leaders of the youth of Paradise. The two sons of the House of the Prophet (pbuh) would grow up to be great leaders, as prophesised by the Holy Messenger (pbuh), and find themselves murdered by their grandfather’s followers for their sacred ancestry (pbuh).
Why is it that, growing up, the names “Hasan (ra) and Hussain (ra)” brought the images of children to my mind?
Why is it that I, and many other youths in America, are not taught much about Hasan (ra) and Hussain (ra) when they grow up?
All most know about them is that the Prophet (pbuh) loved and kissed them and that they would bring him his blessed slippers. That’s it. They’re our role models to be the perfect children. We, as Sunnis, have forgotten that they’re really models through our death and afterlife.
We never learn that Hasan (ra) and Hussain (ra) grow up to be Imam Hasan (ra) and Imam Hussain (ra). We don’t learn of the prophecy of Imam Hasan (ra) being a “great sayyid” through whose hands,
“Allah shall bring peace between two parties.”
We don’t learn about him succeeding his father as the entitled fifth Rightly Guided Caliph, a rank we are taught is posthumously bestowed upon Umar ibn Abd al-Aziz (ra). We aren’t taught that he gave up his right to the caliphate to fulfill that very Muhammadan Prophecy (pbuh). We never learn that Hasan (ra) and Hussain (ra) grow up.
We never learn about the murder of the Prophet’s (pbuh) grandsons at the hands of his Ummah. We never learn about the betrayal from a son of Bani Ummayah. We never learn about the theft of khilafat from the righteous. We never learn about Muawiyah’s warning his son to not “meet God with his [Imam Hussain’s (ra)] blood”. We never learn about the gross disobedience to his father, his soul’s nature, his sense of inhumanity, to the Prophet (pbuh) he claimed to love.
They couldn’t spare a drop of water for the progeny of the Prophet (pbuh) they claimed to love. Their hearts had already traded God for the pleasures of this world.
We feel, from our parents and elders, that Muharram is sacred for reasons other than literal translation, but don’t know why. We get lost in confusing debates about not marrying during Muharram. Elders argue over engagements being jaa’iz before and/or after 10th Muharram. We get even more confused when an Aunty says marriages shouldn’t be held until Rabi’ al-Awwal.
“Why does it matter?” We ask.
“We aren’t Shia,” we iterate.
Few parents are willing to explain. Maybe the pain of which there is to speak is too deep. Maybe they’ve become confused on the validity of their beliefs. However, I’m not writing this to criticise the pseudo-salafi influence in America throwing off 1400 years of orthodox Sunni scholarship.
I’m writing this because I was (and still am, obviously) a confused Sunni youth in America, wondering why the hadith and scholarly quotes about the Ahl al-Bayt are an open secret, why the poems of Imam Shafi’ are hidden, why our elders and teachers are content in letting an entire generation grow up without knowing that Islam could have died barely 60 years in. How can an imam talk about the erroneous “fitnah of women” when we don’t even know about the fitnah that almost killed the religion of our beloved Prophet (pbuh)?
We, as a generation and a new culture are confused because we don’t know about Karbala. I educated myself. I read about the Ahl al-Bayt. I read about Orthodox Sunnism. I picked up where the Sunday school textbooks left off. I read about what our Shia brothers believe about the Battle of Karbala. I read about what the Orthodox Sunni scholars say about it. I read the accounts. I feel the shared pain between the lines—an ancient remorse, the feeling of shame.
When you realise the scholars who speak about Hussain (ra) are the scholars that are here to be the heirs of the Prophets (pbuh), you see how much we share across these sects. You see how sects become madhabs (religions). We aren’t united by the shahadah. We aren’t united by love of a single God (swt). We aren’t united by love for the Prophet (pbuh). We are united by all that and the love of the Ahl al-Bayt.
In Muharram, we share the deep grief for the events at Karbala. When you see what both traditions of scholars, Shia and Orthodox Sunni, say about the emotions of Muharram, you see why we are brothers.
We are brothers because when a tyrant stole the caliphate of the Muslim Ummah and abused it, Imam Hussain (ra) stood up for you and me and the nation his grandfather built with his blood, sweat, and many tears. He marched himself to his death for the sake of survival. On that day in Karbala, he was undoubtedly on the side of Islam, the side of his father, the side of his grandfather (PBUH), the side of righteousness and truth.
Imam Hussain (ra) came to the battlefield not as a Shia to fight Sunnis, or a Sunni to fight Shias. He was there as the inheritor and rightful successor of his grandfather (pbuh) to continue the Prophetic crusade against injustice and darkness. It wasn’t “Sunni succession versus Shia succession”. The learned of the Ummah had already designated Imam Hasan (ra) and Imam Hussain (ra) as caliphs. No. That day in Karbala, the battlefield was Haq versus Kufr.
Bloodshed was to ensue. Brother slaughtered brother. Imam Hussain (ra) came with a message of diplomacy, of amnesty, of civility. He was faced with an army who claimed to be from the Ummah of the Prophet Muhammad (pbuh). They were a people who claimed to pray and fast. An army who venerated the grandfather of the man they were ordered to murder (pbuh), an army who claimed to love God (swt) and His messenger (pbuh) as the ultimate reality.
An army who claimed to be on the path of Islam, an army who claimed to love the Prophet Muhammad (pbuh), was about to slaughter his holy family before leaving their dead bodies to rot for three days. They took the words of the kalma, chewed them up, spat them out, and trampled them with their horses. When Sayydina Abu Bakr (ra),“would rather do good to the family of the Prophet (pbuh) rather than to [his] own family,” the army at Karbala didn’t even spare thirsty infant Ali al-Asghar (ra) crying in the arms of Imam Hussain (ra).
They couldn’t spare a drop of water for the progeny of the Prophet (pbuh) they claimed to love. Their hearts had already traded God for the pleasures of this world. Words cannot describe the revolting lapse of conscience, of taqwa, of basic humanity, that the murderers of the Prophet’s household had on that day (pbuh).
The story ends with Sayyid Shabab al-Jannah, the Leader of the Youth in Paradise, the Prince of the Prophet’s household (pbuh), becoming the final casualty. Having watched all 72 of his followers and most of his family slaughtered, beheaded, and disfigured, he charged into the army of thousands, fighting valiantly despite his severe wounds. After the final blow to the Prince of the Martyrs, his head was cut off, and placed on a silver platter to be presented to the general of the army, who “started playing with a stick at the nose and mouth of Al-Hussain’s (ra) head and saying something about his handsome features”. The army, who claimed to be Muslims, would then place the heads of their victims and Imam Hussain (ra) on the tips of spears and march 600 miles to Yazid—championing their victory.
I mourn in Muharram. I mourn in my own way, and always look to do better in honouring our Imam, and for at least the first ten days of every year, I remind myself of Imam Hussain (ra).
If only this was the whole story, yet this much is enough to make anyone’s skin crawl. Such injustice was done. If Hussain (ra) had remained quiet and relented to Yazid, he and his family members would have lived. However, Yazid’s men would still have been evil.
They would gut Islam of anything good or Prophetic, and left it a shell of empty words, of sin, of corruption, of evil. If it weren’t for Imam Hussain’s (ra) sacrifice, Islam would have died. The legacy of Hussain’s (ra) selfless sacrifice lived on in the community of the Muslims under unjust rulers. The light of his fight for truth lived on in the minds of the believers, ready to reclaim the religion of the Holy Prophet (pbuh) whenever opportunity presented.
Imam Hussain (ra) inspired the spirit of reality in the darkness. Yazid had Imam Hussain (ra) killed, Yazid won, but Yazid still died three years later, and today he’s nothing but dust in the desert, while Hussain (ra) lives on in the hearts of billions. While Yazid won the battle, Hussain (ra) continues to win the war hundreds of years later. His death in righteousness lit the fire of truth until the truth of the battle could prevail, and continues to inspire truth in the face of injustice today.
How could I ignore the sacrifices of the Prophet’s family? How could I not grieve and mourn when recounting the atrocities at Karbala? How could I ignore the suffering of Imam Hussain (ra), when he watched all those he loved in the world beaten, abused, slaughtered, beheaded, and molested in front of his eyes? When Imam Hussain (ra) gave up his whole world, was stabbed 33 times by spears, struck 34 times by swords, hit over 100 times by arrows, only to weep and say, “I only wish for Allah (swt) to shower them with forgiveness,” how can I say that remembering his suffering is a sin?
I am a Sunni, and I mourn in Muharram. Mourning is not exclusive to our Shia brothers, and we shouldn’t let that cross our minds. Imam Hussain (ra) died so that all of us could be Muslim. His death enabled us all to seek the pleasure of God and the righteous, and not this world. The family and lovers of the Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) faced such inhumanity from people who also claimed to love the Prophet; people who supposedly read salawat on them during every salaat. It should not be forgotten. It should always be remembered, and if you don’t even shed a tear, if you don’t start grieving just at the thought of the injustice, then you aren’t remembering like you should. When you don’t remember, when you don’t feel emotion, for the events of Karbala, when you’ve let the sacrifice be forgotten, you’ve accepted Yazid’s victory.
I’m a Sunni, and my heart grieves, because Sunnis do grieve for Hussain (ra). We weep for Hussain (ra). We have for 1400 years, just like Shias. Because Karbala wasn’t a sacrifice for Shias, it wasn’t even a sacrifice for all Muslims. It was a sacrifice for humanity.
“Shah ast Hussain, Badshah ast Hussain
Deen ast Hussain, Deen Panah ast Hussain
Sardad na dad dast, dar dast-e-yazeed,
Haqaa key binaey La ila ast Hussain ”
“King is Hussain, Emperor is Hussain .
Faith is Hussain; the Defender of Faith is Hussain.
His head he gave, not his hand, to Yazid.
The reality is that the foundation of La ilaha ila Allah is Hussain.”
-Khawaja Ghareeb Nawaz Moinuddin Chisti
Peace and blessings be upon the Prophet Muhammad (pbuh), his family, his companions, and his wives.
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