Will 2015 spare our children from the violence of 2014?

Published: December 29, 2014
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A Syrian child cries as he waits to be registered by the United Nations High Commissioner for Refugees (UNHCR) in Arsal, in Lebanon's Bekaa valley, on November 19, 2013. PHOTO: AFP

Thousands of miles away, in a candle vigil for the children of the Peshawar attack, the Mayor of Mississauga, Ontario, Canada, Bonnie Crombie said,

“The children lost in Peshawar were not just Pakistani kids; they were our children, the children of this planet.”

I shuddered to imagine the paranoia of millions of parents in Pakistan on the day that their children will have to go back to school after winter break. And along with them, my mind wandered to the other children on the planet – the children who have lost their lives and so much more.

I couldn’t help but think of the 200 plus school girls that Boko Haram kidnapped in Nigeria. Will these girls ever be able to return to school again?

Last September, Gaza was short of almost 490 school-going children, as schools reopened after a 50-day war with Israel during the summers. Many of the kids who survived had lost their homes and family members. The Israeli kid who died after rockets were fired from Gaza was also a child of the same planet.

How can one not think of the millions of displaced children of Syria currently spending their fourth winter in refugee shelters, attending makeshift schools in the camps, while nearly 14,000 have perished?

My heart aches for the children who have been brutally beheaded by Islamic State of Iraq and Syria (ISIS) for not converting. Hearing the spine-chilling stories of Yazidi minor girls who are being sold as sex slaves makes me tremble.

“They will sell my girl for $10.”

This cry of a Kurd father from Sinjar haunts me to date. So does the recount of a 19-year-old Yazidi girl who managed to escape:

“One day we were given clothes that looked like dance costumes and were told to bathe and wear them. One girl killed herself in the bathroom. She cut her wrists and hanged herself.”

In a lesser heard Central African Republican, almost 6,000 to 10,000 children have been snatched of their school lives and have been forcibly recruited as child soldiers, some being as young as eight-years-old. There are child soldiers recruited by Iraqi militias and ISIS too. Amnesty International reports there are 250,000 child soldiers world over.

Closer to home, around the time of Malala Yousafzai’s incident, 12-year-old Mehzar Zehra was shot on her way to school and while her father became the victim of target killing for being Shia. I also think of little Rimsha Masih, who had to languish in jail, and Aitzaz Hasan from Hangu, who lost his life while averting a bomb attack in his school. Let’s not forget the Hazara kids who either perished or were injured in Mastung and other attacks on the Hazara community. Let’s not forget the hudreds of children who have died during the drone attacks in Waziristan.

Forgive me for not being able to enumerate every child who was lost to meaningless wars happening around us. Echoing Mayor Bonnie, each of these are children of the same planet. And it is incumbent upon humanity to ensure them a safe childhood.

According to a UN report,

“More than one billion children under the age of 18 were living in areas in conflict or emerging from war. Of these, an estimated 300 million were under age five and more than 18 million children were refugees or internally displaced.”

As the calendar flips to 2015, there will hardly be anything new for these children. Those who have perished shall sleep below heaps of earth with their innocent dreams buried in their hearts. Those alive will continue to bear the trauma of bare survival, feeling lucky to have lived another day, no matter how.

This is not all.

Beyond active warfare, vested interests in media, state or faith-based groups also subject children to psychological abuse by preaching warmongering and hatred. A child’s video on Memri TV telling tender Palestinian children about evil Jews, a seven-year-old boy from a madrassa who sings jihad against infidels, or a 10-year-old boy from a Gurukul who spews hate and desires to combat Muslims – these are just a few examples, and not a concoction of my mind. Even on social media, we violate war-torn kids by sharing gory pictures of disfigured or dead children to evoke emotional propaganda.

Is this the quality of life the children of our planet deserve?

Why are we so disgustingly insensitive about how detrimental something like this could be to a child’s health and potential? Would you put your child through this physical or psychological politics of hate and violence? Why do we fail to think of the long-lasting adverse consequences of violence on their tender minds and bodies in the form of post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD)?

Do these children even have an idea of the geopolitics, war on resources or hegemony of sects or tribes, for which they are subjected to the worst form of violations?

The hope kindled by voices like Kailash Satyarthi or Malala or Edhi is only momentary. The scale of the war industry is too huge to be countered by a few sincere souls. UN reports reveal a change of war tactics in current conflicts that have made children even more directly exposed to warfare. This only makes the future grimmer.

Violence and hatred are not inborn. They are learned behaviours, and we, as adults, are the culprits who have taught our kids through words, actions and inactions. Even if we can’t create a world without conflicts, can we at least be civilised enough to spare children from being caught in this crossfire of hate and violence?

Garcia Machel, UN’s Secretary-General, correctly stated,

“It is unforgivable that children are assaulted, violated, murdered and yet our conscience is not revolted nor our sense of dignity challenged. This represents a fundamental crisis of our civilisation.”

Indeed.

But yes, yes, do wish each other a happy new year.

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Dr Ilmana Fasih

An Indian gynaecologist, married to a Pakistani, Ilmana is a health activist, and m-Health entrepreneur, who writes on social and health issues as a passion. She dreams of a world without borders and wars.

The views expressed by the writer and the reader comments do not necessarily reflect the views and policies of The Express Tribune.

  • Iftikhar Ali

    No, actually I dont know, No one knows we are watchinng hunger games’Recommend

  • Prashant

    You lose the ability to fight for your children’s well being when your sympathies lie with the oppressors of someone else’s children. There was hardly a hue and cry among the Muslim nations when Boko Haram and the ISIS had kidnapped hundreds of girls, a brother or a father of these girls would rather want to have their dead bodies than having their girls being abused, converted and sold in the market.Recommend

  • Fighter Man

    the same time my Heart cries for the muslims of India who are being forcefully converted into Hindus by Modi Sarkar.Recommend

  • Fatima Fasih

    Pakistan, Gaza, Israel, Nigeria, Syria, Iraq, Central African Republic, Burma and the rest of the world our media didn’t care to focus on…children were the innocent that had to suffer for our silence. While we continue our measly lives, and “celebrate our year”, we can continue to ignore the realities – but the truth is: We suck at protecting our most vulnerable and this year was the worst for OUR children.Recommend

  • http://bushranaz.blogspot.com Bushra Naz

    My question is what
    is the world doing do to compensate the innocent prisoners subjected to
    torture, mock executions, sleep-deprivation, profanities, chaining
    naked, and sacrilegious attacks? Why the suffering? Why the non-erasable
    emotional scars? Now that US doesn’t have any ‘vested interests’ left to safeguard in
    the region, they leave out the ‘Global War against Terrorism’ and
    ‘making the world safer’ ideology behind. After creating an army of
    brutally retaliating terrorists and making it easier for them to recruit
    more – giving them reasons to further retaliate through such gross
    human rights violations, they have created a never-ending fiasco for
    others to deal with. How convenient is that!Recommend

  • Prashant

    You have forcefully put the word “forcefully” in your statement.Recommend

  • IGLOO

    I have a bad feeling that this year is going to be a lot worse than any other year in our history, but hopefully after 2015 we might finally see progress in this country.Recommend

  • Pakistani

    I hope and pray for the millions of children in India who face violence, human trafficking and slave labor on a daily basis. May India have many more Kailash Satyarthi to help her children.Recommend

  • Maximus Decimus Meridius

    Quite true. Usually both parties ignore children in conflicts.Recommend

  • Milind A

    Appreciate your prayers for our children in India… Besides your prayers also make sure you don’t send your ‘non-state actors’ or ‘strategic assets’ to our land to create mayhem and orphanize more of our children…

    Yes India will have many more Kailash Satyarthi to help our children and yes, they won’t be threatened or shot in their head for doing the same.Recommend

  • Hypocrisy?

    “There was hardly a hue and cry among Muslim nations”
    You won’t find them with your eyes and ears closed, look around on the internet and you will find many Muslims protesting against them

    Did you publicly protest against the killings in Assam, if not then I am afraid you do not have any right to lecture others.Recommend

  • Prashant

    On one hand many Muslims say the terrorist acts committed by Muslims are in reality a conspiracy by Jews/Hindus and Christians and on the other hand you also claim that those acts have been condemned by Muslims.Recommend

  • Prashant

    On one hand many Muslims say the terrorist acts committed by Muslims are in reality a conspiracy by Jews/Hindus and Christians and on the other hand you also claim that those acts have been condemned by Muslims.Recommend

  • Hypocrisy?
  • Fighter Man

    I can understand your painRecommend

  • Prashant

    How can you not understand, forceful conversions are nothing new for some in this world.Recommend