‘Have some paan, Bhai jaan’

Published: April 25, 2012

Aslam says he resents the jeering passers-by who glance at him rudely. PHOTO: FARAH KAMAL

Bhai jaan! Yahaan sub milta hai: meetha paan, tambaaku wala paan, khushboo wala paan aur aap kay liye khaas, special paan.

(Brother, you will find everything here; sweet paan, tobacco paan, scented paan, and just for you, a very special paan.)

Aslam, a 15-year-old boy, dressed in filthy clothes and oiled hair, which diffuse a pungent smell, usually utters the same statement to every man or woman strolling in front of the tobacco shop in a market in Defence, Lahore.

The young salesman never fails to grab the attention of passers-by. It’s impossible to ignore the boy because he delivers the sales pitch with so much perfection and passion that many are emboldened into trying paan even if they have never tasted one before.

Aslam, who spends his days trying to lure customers to buy paans at a local pan shop, is unfortunately the only bread-earner of his family. His laughter does not elucidate that reality, and his shiny eyes never give the impression that he is living a hard life – a life that many his age would not be brave enough to manage.

The boy has to feed two younger sisters, Azra and Kainat, five and seven years old respectively, as well as his elder sister who is 16 years old.

The tough life that Aslam lives is private, and not many are privy to the other side of the ever-smiling boy, even his fellow salesmen.

How many 15 year olds do you know who are familiar with the concept of bread-earning, having a job, or being on a pay-roll?

While many children from well-to-do families are wrapped up in the quest for toys and fancy dresses, Apple products and new models of luxury cars if they are older – Aslam works all-day long to appease the owner of the tobacco shop. He does this in order to earn his daily wage of Rs150, which is the only source of food for the four members of his family.

The remuneration barely allows Aslam to provide food to his sisters. He works a dozen hours per day so that when he returns home, he is carrying something in his hands. He gleefully expresses the joy that he feels when the sisters latch onto the edibles,

Mai amuman apni behnun ke lye laal walay Lay’s aur daal ya murghi le ker jata hun takay un ko sub tarhan ki ghiza khila sakun

(I usually take a packet of red Lay’s along with pulses or chicken so that my sisters can have more diverse nutrition)

Aslam thinks of it as an obligation to provide food and clothes to his siblings and explains how sometimes he chooses to remain hungry himself.

Jab apni behnun ko khushi se khana khata dekhta hun tou meri bhook mar jati hei.

(My appetite is lost when I gaze at my sisters who look beyond happy feasting on the food that I bring in the house.)

Aslam currently resides in a small room in his mamoo’s  house (maternal uncle) who lives in a kachi abaadi (slum) outside Defence. He also got him the job at the paan shop after Aslam’s mother passed away.

While talking about his work, Aslam says he resents the jeering passers-by who glance at him rudely. He narrates how people abuse him and shove him aside when he convinces them to buy paan. The young boy states that he is also a human being and it is his right to be be treated like any other boy.

 Kiya paan baichna gunah hai?

(Is it a sin to sell paan?)

Aslam retells the heart wrenching tale of his first day at work, when he was beaten by a customer because he mixed up his orders. He explains how he brought a meetha paan for the customer, but he thrashed him asserting that he had ordered a tambaaku wala paan.

Aslam was so distraught after his incident that he couldn’t sleep properly for he week. He kept crying, pleading God to return him to his mother. That was the day he missed her the most, he proclaims.

Haji Sahab, the owner of the tobacco shop,  is very satisfied with the Aslam’s work. He states that Aslam brings in customers for his products, and sometimes he is even paid an increment in his wage as Haji Sahab says he is fairly regular and never steals from the shop. However, what confuses the shopkeeper is why he never accepts the tips that come his way from the customers.

The other waiters at the shop are keen to collect these tips, but Aslam is reluctant, according to Haji Sahab. When I asked him about this, he replied enthusiastically, saying:

Mai bhikaari nahi hun. 

(I am not a beggar.)

Aslam is not concerned about his future. He is content with the life he is living and is not even interested in going to school. The young pan seller doesn’t like the idea of going to school and thinks he will not do well in studies. He dismissively added that he assumes children are beaten by their teachers in school.

There are many other boys who are living in similar conditions; they have suppressed their dreams and are not even concerned with what is happening around them because they have to provide for their families at a very young age. Why are orphans like Aslam not looked after by the government? Why is it that a family of four is living on just Rs150 a day? Why are we turning a blind eye to the plight faced by Pakistanis just like us simply because we were lucky enough to be born in privileged families?

There is a need for us, the masses, and for the government to recognise this and devise policies that lessen the misery of the unfortunate Aslams in Pakistan.

Correction: An earlier version of this blog post incorrectly translated mamoo as paternal uncle. The error has now been rectified.

Daniyal.Khan

Daniyal Khan

A student perusing a degree in Economics and Politics from LUMS

The views expressed by the writer and the reader comments do not necessarily reflect the views and policies of The Express Tribune.

  • Saamia Khan

    Thanks for bringing this to limelight . Can we help him ? Recommend

  • madiha.saeed

    The picture was added by The Express Tribune, because Aslam wouldn’t allow the author to take his photograph.

    Recommend

  • Ahsan

    child labor is certainly among the greatest problem that Pakistani children are facing which entails denial of education to them and child abuse too. Thanks for bringing this upRecommend

  • GurBux

    A fine piece by the young writer, you have conveyed your message well. Keep writing!! :)Recommend

  • An English Friend

    Thank you for this heart touching report on the hard life of this young man. I hope he prospers. There are so many people in this world who have nothing and suffer so much, while others have so much and do not appreciate how lucky they are. Recommend

  • http://www.tanzeel.wordpress.com Tanzeel

    Bhai jaan! Yahaan sub likha jaata haii: from Maaya Khan to Imra Khan , aur aap kay liye is dafa kuch khaas, special i.e meetha Paaan. Thanks to ET for publishing almost everything on the site.Recommend

  • Asad

    Now only if people would understand and agree to limiting giving brith to children according to their resources.Recommend

  • Sarosh Khan

    Awesome piece of writing…!!! Keep writing…!!!!!Recommend

  • Sarah H.

    Good one. At least someone bothered to look at things other than Veena, homosexuality, Islam, hijab, sectarianism, plane crash and ‘dear diary, my father took me to…”.Recommend

  • Sane

    Why not we look around and find such people to give them their own cabin or Thela. I am sure many of us have few thousand to spare. Everyone can help at least one person in a year with a strong commitment to follow. In ten years, ten families can prosper by each of us. We do not need to look towards government. Let government do the ‘job’ they are doing and shall be doing in future as well.

    Anyways nice writing.Recommend

  • http://www.facebook.com/overdrivetheband Hassan Murad

    Great piece of writing brother. You highlighted a very pinching reality of our society. Keep it up! Recommend

  • Sane

    @Asad
    You are absolutely out of context.Recommend

  • Sharjeel

    mamoo is maternal uncle and not paternal uncle as said in the article.Recommend

  • Hafsa

    This is so nicely written. Its very heart touching but sometimes when I look at people like Aslam,young boys selling different things on stalls and even maids in our houses, they make me really happy as they are not begging and are still working hard towards a better and respectable life.

    And as for those people who are rude to such poor individuals, they should know that if God has made them more fortunate and has given them a better lifestyle,He can also take all of it away from them in a minute.Recommend

  • Ali Tanoli

    Oh khudya Rehm ker this is unwellfare pakistan …. shame on us.Recommend

  • http://pakistani-edu.blogspot.com Usman Shahid

    What is the purpose of going to school, if school only forces them to memorise subjects rather than helping them to use those subjects in daily life.

    A person with matric/fsc, A-level- O-level certificates are not able to get any job. These boys are doing the perfect things by earning and feeding their and their families.

    http://pakistani-edu.blogspot.com/2012/03/please-define-purpose-of-secondary-and.htmlRecommend

  • zac

    THANKX .. FOR AWAREING … V SHOULD see .. what v r doing .. R V HELPING THESE NEEDY PEOPLE .. EXCEPT THOSE ..WHO BEG AROUND THE STREET… OR SIGNALS .. N SERVE AS A BUSSINESS TO SOMEONE .. :( Recommend

  • http://thedabbabrigade.wordpress.com RiffyR

    @Usman: You must be joking. I was barely out of my O levels when I got my first job and have received progressive offers since then. It wasn’t at a call centre or a school, if you must know but as a writer in a publication. And school definitely does not force you to memorize anything. It’s how you study. Everyone has a different way.

    The point is not even about education. The thing is just basic humanity. The fact that a child is forced to live hand to mouth is just wrong. This is the time where he needs education, a sense of belonging and guidance so that when he is mature enough, he can give back in a way that won’t hinder his growth as an individual.

    Is that asking for too much?Recommend

  • Parvez

    @Asad: You Sir, are very much in context.Recommend

  • Danyboy!

    excellent peice of writing filled with emotions and insight Keep it upRecommend

  • http://nummtech.com Mushahid Hussain

    Spot On Dude, You did awesome job by highlighting such topic, keep writing…Recommend

  • Daniyal

    @Saamia Khan:
    Yes. I would suggest, you may start being more charitable and kind to guys such as these. There are so many NGOs working for this. Donate if you got the resourcesRecommend

  • Shahrukh

    Heart-breaking story…very well-written!!! Recommend

  • Anushey

    The really gut-wrenching part is that Aslam will probably get frustrated soon and start beating up his sisters or worse he will sell them in marriage to some man who will do worse. And the really sad part is, no one can even blame him, because how long is one supposed to remain quiescent? Recommend

  • Sane

    @Anushey
    Speculation & assumption ….. based on negativity. Rather must appreciate the boy.Recommend

  • Salman Sadaqat

    I guess this is the dilemma of our society, Child Labor has been a neglected problem since ages. The authorities should take it seriously and eradicate such cases from the society by supporting the family and providing books in the young hands instead of Paans. Its our moral duty to highlight these cases and also contribute as much as we can…..
    Good Job Author…Recommend

  • http://pakistani-edu.blogspot.com Usman Shahid

    @RiffyR: You must be exceptional and really good. Unfortunately most of the public in Pakistan are not so lucky, so called education is not helping them. I have seen many bright students with good degrees but unable to get any practical job.

    My single point is, education till 12 standard should have vocational training as well. Those who are not so lucky or not from good wealthy background, atleast should be able to feed them-self. Otherwise this so called education is useless.

    Education should help everyone.Recommend

  • http://pakistani-edu.blogspot.com Usman Shahid

    @RiffyR
    saying “The point is not even about education. The thing is just basic humanity. The fact that a child is forced to live hand to mouth is just wrong. This is the time where he needs education, a sense of belonging and guidance so that when he is mature enough, he can give back in a way that won’t hinder his growth as an individual.
    Is that asking for too much?”

    I agree with you, its the basic need of every human or you can say its a human right to get education. But honestly tell me, in Pakistan, does degree teaches you something. To be an educated is it necessary to have a degree and specially the degrees we produce in Pakistan. Tell me how many businessman in Pakistan are PhD. Similarly how many PhDs are running their own business.

    Does Thomas edison, was educated due to degrees, does bill gate is successful due to degree. Does thomas edison invented so many things, was that because he was going after degrees.

    In the last, why we learn ? why you go in school ? TO learn new skills and to use them in daily life, like you did and might be your school is good enough. To force everyone to go to school, first educate the education system of Pakistan unless than if a street boy is doing some small business, is performing better than wasting time in most of the schools because at the end, he again have to do the same.Recommend

  • http://pakistani-edu.blogspot.com Usman Shahid

    @Salman Sadaqat:
    if a boy work in Pakistan-india, it become child labour, but unfortunately if the same age boy work in America, UK, that is called as internship. :)

    He is working, this should not be a problem, problem is that he is not able to study. If somehow we should be able to teach him and allow him to work at the same time, that will be best for him.

    As our education sytem do not teach vocational skills as a result most of the middle class and lower class people do not send their children to schools as they know that after getting degrees they will not able to get job and till than they would have lost their 10 to 15 precious years.Recommend