5 steps closer to being successful
Why have some people been so successful in their lives, but not others?
Sometimes even the most brilliant and highly accomplished people fail to understand why they succeed. After in-depth research, it has been found that successful people reach their goals not because of who they are, but because of what they do.
Here are the five things that extraordinary people do differently, which make them so accomplished.
1) Set goals that are specific and measurable
Always set yourself goals which can be measured and are also specific. For example, ‘lose 10 pounds’ is more specific and measurable than ‘lose some weight’, because it gives you a clear objective to achieve and also an idea of what success looks like. Such goals keep you motivated until you get there – since you clearly know what you want to achieve.
Moreover, clearly define the exact steps that need to be taken to reach your goal. Just promising that you will ‘work hard’ or ‘eat less’ is too vague—be clear and precise.
“I’ll work from 10am to 7pm on weekdays,” tells you what you need to do precisely.
2) Monitor your progress periodically
Efforts made while trying to achieve success requires stringent, honest, and regular monitoring of your progress.
If you cannot determine how are you are doing then you cannot adjust your plans or your strategies accordingly. Track your progress frequently – depending on the goal you set for yourself you may do weekly, monthly, or quarterly tracking.
3) Have a positive and optimistic attitude
All of us want to be successful. However, for some reason we are all attracted to and can be easily drawn to the negative side.
Therefore engage in lots of positive thinking when setting your goals – about how likely you are to achieve them.
This is extremely helpful for creating and sustaining your motivation. Almost all goals require time, planning, effort, and persistence in order to achieve them. Therefore stay positive and stay on track.
4) Focus on becoming great rather than just good
Believing in your ability to achieve success is crucial.
Many of us believe that our IQ and personality cannot be changed – that no matter what we do, we won’t improve. As a result, we do not focus on developing and acquiring new skills, instead we choose to focus on proving ourselves.
Fortunately, the belief in fixed personality and intelligence is completely wrong.
Abilities of all kinds can be changed, learned, or acquired. You just need to believe that you can change – this thought will allow you to make better choices and help you reach your objectives. People who are motivated and persistent on becoming great, rather than just good, appreciate the journey as much as the final destination.
5) Develop your willpower
Willpower is the willingness to stick to long-term goals and to persist even in times of difficulty. People with willpower are likely to obtain more education in their lifetime, earn higher grades.
Even if you do not have the willpower, there is something you can do about it. People who lack it think that they just don’t have the ability to become successful. To build willpower, take on a challenge that requires you to do something you’d honestly rather not do. As I mentioned earlier, planning, persistence, and strategies make you successful.
After reading this I hope you will be in a better position to identify your earlier mistakes. Now your task is to use that experience and this knowledge to your advantage.
Remember, you don’t need to be a born genius with innate abilities in order to become successful. It’s never what you are, but what you do.
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